The story of how I became my ex’s gf’s friend
Hello, tumblr has become my source of drama archive. You will see more of these posts. K thx
Story legend
Ex bf: “Y”
Girlfriend: “O”
Me: “H”
Ride or die friend: “N”
This all started back to when I noticed “Y” blocked me on Instagram. How did I know? He was constantly looking at my story, so yeah I’d find out the moment he’s not looking anymore 🤷🏻♀️
So I messaged him on whatsapp, asking what happened since I thought we’re still friends & if I did something wrong. He blocked me on whatsapp.
Fast forward a week…. (or so. I have bad time-sensitivity)
He unblocks me. He explained his current gf “O” was paranoid about me. He had to prove to her that he doesn’t want to get me back. But she doesn’t feel secure in their relationship if I don’t get a boyfriend. So basically, “Y” told me “O” wants me to get a boyfriend in order for her to feel secure in their relationship.
This made me furious.
Obviously.
Right!?
I bitched out “Y” that he has no right to drag me into his relationship. I am the past, move on. I told him that “O” is a child, and she needs to get her insecurities checked. I was not nice about it.
I showed my close friends this, because hell, are they even friends if you can’t rant to them in comfort?
My best friend “N” was furious. He took the initiative to dm “O” on Instagram. Since she went ahead and blocked me. He put her in her place, telling her that she needs to start acting like an adult.
“Y” messages me a few moments later. “O” had seen the message “N” said, and she was furious. “Y” said “Now you got your friend to stick his head into places she shouldn’t be….etc”, “she’s not listening to reason!”
As if this was my fault to begin with? Why do I have to fix your shit?
Ok anyways, “O” unblocks me on Instagram, and DMs me”
The truth was revealed.
“Y” told “O” the reason he’s with her is that dating is a competition to him, because he’s competitive. He wants to know that he can date someone before I did. He was constantly checking on my social media to see if I was dating anyone. (I wasn’t because I am secure with myself and I am ok to be single)
“Y” has also been secretive about his phone to “O”. He still kept all our pictures back from when we were dating. Hence she was insecure about how he felt about her. (Understandable)
Ok so “O” and I are now friends. We’re putting the puzzle together….
“Y” is an asshole, thinking he can lie about what’s really going on, and making up things to tell me and to tell her.
So me, being the social justice bitch that I am, stood up for “O”. I went to message “Y”, told him he fucked up, and he needs to fix himself before he goes and hurts people.
“O”, who is younger than me, and inexperienced in relationships, is now my friend and I am open to her if she needs any future relationship advice.
Oh yes. She broke up with him.
Well deserved.
Hello Tumblr….
It’s been a while
My hearts been broken.
But I’m growing up.
I love what I do.
And I’m happy with myself
“Please be careful with me. My heart is tired and sometimes I get sad without knowing why.”— etoile-filantes
